"I suppose that since most of our hurts come from relationships, so will our healing..." WM Paul Young





"Only after one experiences the incredible pain of loss, can he appreciate the unbelievable joy of restoration"

Larry Reimer

Saturday, July 28, 2007

Ouch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I tried so hard to get some sympathy with my last post, but to no avail, so I decided to try again. The weather has been improving and the other day we actually broke the 20 degree mark for a daytime high. One person I know commented on that day that it’s good to finally be in double digits. Huh???

So I was out enjoying some of our improved weather and meeting some more people in a friendly game of soccer. I jumped for a header and when I landed, the ground was not the same as I expected. My foot slipped, and I collapsed to the ground. I looked at my knee and found something was not right. From my angle, I saw the top of my leg looking normal, a sharp shift at the knee, and then a continued straight line to my foot. From the back, the other guys saw what looked like a large lump on the back of my leg. My knee was out of joint by about 1 ½ inches. As I screamed in pain, the guys gathered around and prayed, then one of them slowly straightened my leg and it popped back into place. I could feel it move, and all of us could see it. So it’s back in place now, but there is some soft tissue damage around the knee so I can’t walk yet and it’s all sore and swollen. A friend has some crutches that he’s lending to me, but It’s a challenge to get around. I also can’t drive my car so I need to find another way of getting places like church and school. On the other hand, I can pray for complete healing and let God fix the rest of the damage. As of right now, I’m sitting on the couch keeping my leg somewhat elevated. One of the weird things about this is that usually I’m the one helping people, and now I’m receiving help. It's only been a few hours and I hate it already! I even have to limit my social schedule because of this!!! ;)

Tuesday, July 17, 2007

It's cold!!!!!!!!!!

Just thought some of you might like to know...


I got to my car on Sunday morning and the windows were all covered in frost! It seems nobody had sympathy on my when I said I could see my breath one morning (I actually received at least one email calling me names for my claims of feeling cold); but this is extreme!!!!!! To have frost on your car windows is just not the way things are meant to be. I'm in Australia after all; and we all know Australia never gets cold. Not only that; it's July and all good Canadians know July is not prime frost time. In fact, July is the only month of the year that I have never seen snow on the ground (mountains excluded). Will somebody please feel sorry for me? Please!!!!!???

ok, fine. Just thought I'd put a smile on the faces of some people reading this. Hope you are all doing great! I'm getting ready to start classes again. We've got just over 200 new students starting this week and I'm helping with enrolment tomorrow. Should be good.

NEWS FLASH!!!!

As I was writing this, a segment came on the radio saying that this is the coldest morning Sydney has seen in 20 year - and the forecast for tomorrow is colder than today. We are a full 4 degrees below average for this time of year!

Monday, July 09, 2007

Out with the old...In with the new...

I brought Ryan and Amy to the airport today. Another housemate, Stephen, came along too. We stopped along the way for one last meal together and then went on the airport. It must have looked like quite something for Stephen and me to get into the car after saying farewell; two grown men in tears… Oh well, real men do cry! There are a lot of people leaving in the next couple of weeks and hundreds of new students are starting a new life of their own. It’s hard to say goodbye to close friends but it has to be done, and we have a couple of great guys moving into our house in the next couple of weeks. We look back fondly on the memories we have, but we cannot dwell on the loss we are experiencing. Boy, after my last couple of years of letting go of people closest to me – some till the day I die, and others for unknown durations – you’d think I’d know how to do it well; but it seems to be quite the opposite. I guess it confirms for me that I am able to develop close relationships – a good sign of healing from grief after being widowed.

So I now have over a week off and I have not found any good plans for a vacation, so I guess I’ll be staying home and trying to make good use of my time off. Anyone who knows me knows that I get really bored and restless after more than a couple of days with nothing to do, so I’ll have to find something.